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Friday, November 30, 2012

Elder Butler - South Africa 11/20/90 Cont'd

BUTLER - SOUTH AFRICA

Greetings from the other side of the world (with an arrow pointing to the continue of Africa).

11/3/90

Dear Bro. Parker,

I give no excuses f or not writing for so long. Thanks so much for the GUIDElines. You'll never fully know the beneficial effect they've had on me, and for that I am truly grateful to you and all the Veteran Guides. It sure is great to hear how everybody is doing all around the world. South Africa is treating me well. We will have a baptism on the 11th of  November and we just had one the week before last. Our mission is progressing in leaps and bounds. We have gone from 25 baptisms a month last year to 100+ a month for November. Big Improvement, huh?

I am in Benoni, a medium sized town that's close to the International Airport. I've been here for 8 months now. I was transferred last month from one side of town to the  other. We are currently teaching 5 really good families, although we aren't teaching any black people right now. We are trying to work with Black people here in our area, but we have to work through members and t he work is slow.

I'm staying in good shape. We ride our bicycles about 10-15 miles a day (guesstimate). My comp right now is Elder Gadeski, from Calgary, Canada. Not to be proud or anything, but we are working like dogs here, not without blessings of course.

The weather is pretty warm now, 90-100 degrees F every day, so we have good 'farmer' tans.

As far as words of great wisdom, my fountain is not overflowing right now. I really appreciate reed's great discourses. They shed some light on dark corners for me. Just a word for all those who are drowning in the waters of trial and tribulations. I love you! After wading through much affliction, I have learned a few ways of loosening the  burdens which have worked for me. First of all, always remember your sorrows won't be forever, even though they might seem unbearable. Remember that the sun always breaks through in the end. Take courage in the love and support of those who care about you. For, though it may not seem like it, there are many who would do anything to help you, on both sides of the veil. Don't ever surrender, no matter what, keep treading water. The rescue boat will come soon. And above all pray fervently that you will learn the lesson you are supposed to quickly and pray for understanding.. Eternal Understanding. Hang in there. I love you all and can't wait for the glorious day when we are all reunited again. Until then get out there and tear it up everybody. Ek is vir julie, Almall! (I love you all everybody). Love, Eternally, Elder Ken Butler.

In closing, the joys of our Savior's work are eternal while t he woes and sorrows we may experience are merely temporal!

KEN: What a tremendous letter. I think you've either grown a mile in stature and favor with God or I never really knew who you were when you were here. Your folks came to the last Parent's night and brought the whole family. Thanx! for the encouragement. Merry Christmas, in case next month's issue is late! There is Security Guard at the Temple from S. Africa and every time I see him we talk about Johannesburg, the weather, etc. Write again, soon.

Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Elder Richardson Argentina 11/20/90 Cont'd

RICHARDSON - ARGENTINA

P.S. Bro. P. can you send off these quick little 'hello' letters w/the next GUIDElines and plus -- I am afraid that some of this letter to you was also written on my last letter to the GUIDElines. I forgot exactly what I wrote and don't have it in print yet. But that's ok. Twice won't hurt - Thanks!

Oct 22, 1990

Dear Bro. Parker:

Hello World! I feel like I should be writing from the Underground and hiding right now. About 2 or 3 weeks ago 2 American Elders were abducted from Buenos Aires! I don't know if it made news where you ae and it might not even be totally true, but for sure at least one missionary was taken. -- Don't worry --I'm totally safe here in this little town Cutral-co. I guess Satan does all he can to stop the work.

Everything is fine here. I love Spanish--or as they call it here--Castellano -- which is a little take off from Spanish. It's like English (American) and English (England). It's so fun! But I get confused sometimes and feel I can't speak English or Spanish. Brother Parker, I love and appreciate the GUIDElines much more now.The last one I received (dated Sept 19) this week, was extra special and helpful. For all the work you put in to the GUIDElines, I hope you get a TON out of it. You really deserve the blessings. It's usually 2 or 3 months b/w the time when I write and then see it is print -- But I will wait the whole year and be patient in waiting for the GUIDElines -- because I think I know how difficult it is. So I promise to you to write at least once a month -- or make every edition that I can so as to not defeat the 'purpose of the GUIDElines'. I love them and I hope this is a way in which I can pay you for them and hopefully it may be of some use to my brothers and you too, Brother Parker.

It's amazing how quick my feelings change here in the mission field. That is a constant here -- change. W/in a matter of hours I go from one extreme of excitement to depression to excitement. And I want you to know I feel GRRRR8! (I hope it's ok to use one of your 'awesome' terms!) The GUIDElines helped me to feel that way.

Last week one day I was having a hard day with my comp -- as has been mentioned in the GUIDElines -- and was real down, but found out the GUIDElines came and was on my desk! I eagerly tore it open and read for he whole2 hours of siesta. I felt renewed and strengthened especially after reading the letters fromn Elders Dave Port and both Can-Win and Chile Jensens. And we finished the day great!

I need to explain my situation to show you why I have felt the worst I ever have in my life. This companion has been a real struggle and I never have felt so depressed, frustrated and helpless in my life. I've been working with a comp who basically hates me because I'm trying to follow the rules and who doesn't care if we are successful or not. This has been the hardest time in my whole life to the point where several times I'm about to cry in the streets. But as with all trials that we have, I have grown so much. Because he doesn't like responsibility, I have loved to take some and I've run with it and improved in the language and gained valuable experience. And in line with what Elder Can-Win Jensen said a bout prayers 'call upon your Father because He will always be there for us.' I have been in constant prayer for up to an hour at times and have developed a stronger relationship with Him, which has been a great blessing so far in my mission. And I have been able to work on and develop the Christlike virtues of temperance, patience, and love. He really has made me want to work harder to insure that we do out best. I'm so thankful for all the growth I'm making.

I know we should expect to see comps who do not want to work or will demand the best out of us. But this comp is a little different. He actually and seriously is retarded--no joke or cut down. He does not have full use of his brain. He hasn't since he was a kid. He only has full usage of 4/5 of his brain. But as with all comps -- THERE IS A REASON HE IS HERE AND I AM WITH HIM. He would not be here if he could not do well. This has helped me to keep going and keep trying. And amidst all our problems I love him dearly for all he has taught me and all we've been able to do. I am an 'embryo' as Elder Duffin said and I have so much to learn and grow still. It is important with our comps that we are humble, (I am in no way perfect -- so I can't expect it my comp either, this makes me humble) temperate, patient and loving. In this way the Spirit of the Lord can work through us and we c an be powerful tools of righteousness. It has been miraculous what I have been able to do. I have had great experiences with this comp too. He really can be great -- and we just need to press on, try our hardest to improve and accomplish the work we were sent to do. Our relationship has been the best when I've been able to give humble service, and when there has been no contention. I strive for that more than anything right now. Thank you for all your words of wisdom and support you all give me. I love to hear fromm you all too, and hope you learn lots from the letters of others.

I really enjoy my mission and serving the Lord. It is a tremendous blessing in my life!

Just a couple more things. I know the Tri-Stake Fireside was yesterday -- I hope it was a great success and  I wish I could have been there to help! But with my brother there, I doubt I could have done any better -- I'm sure he did great! I hope and pray that it was a great success. And I'm so happy for Scott Simmons -- He is a great guy and shows that perhaps the best thing I ever did in the Program was get others interested in it! I hope Robin is still active! And I'm even more excited for all my brother is doing in the Program.  I have a strong testimony of the Program andit is so important to help him---I love you for that. (Do you think you could get  him in Toastmasters?!) I'm glad to have such close ties to the goings on there at the Temple and am so happy it's going great!

Thank you so much for the letters--I wish I could have known all of you "older" Elders before. You've all helped me a lot and I love you for that. I don't think Elder "Miracle Man" Thornton or Elder Willis could be more excited. I get excited when I read their letters and don't lose that excitement--It is a great motivation!

Since this is lalready a mile long I would like to share my paragraph for the special Christmas issue now. The best preparation I had for my mission was in the Tour Guide Program. It got me running. And I feel it is all due to one special experience that I have not shared with no more than 2 or 3 people. (I would like you to show this to my brother for me too, please). Brother Parker, you told me that your very special experiences in the temple are few. Perhaps the greatest experience that I have had in my life that helped me to gain a strong testimony of prayer and that our Heavenly Father hears and answers all our prayers occurred in the chapel on Solomon and Broadway.

I hate to say it but when I first started going to the SNTM (Sunday Night Training Meeting) with John Bushman and Robin Roberts we went for reasons other than to prepare for our missions. Sure we wanted to be involved in the Program, but the social part was very attractive too, and  that's all I'll say. There was one meeting about a year ago after or before the Halloween Party at the Pospisil's. It was already special with a program about Christ with a chorus and a narrator, etc. John and I had ended up sitting on the left in the  front row, so we had great seats. During the program, and  I'm not sure why but I was wondering if I actually could spend time in the Program with all my studies, etc. And I offered a very short, sincere prayer in my mind asking Heavenly Father if this is what I should do (be in the Program wholeheartedly). I have and had offered many prayers similar to that one prayer, but I've never had a response to any prayer like I did to that prayer. And it didn't come until the end of the meeting. The Spirit was already unusually strong in this outstanding meeting, and at the end of the program, and to end the night we stood up to sing songs. The last or one of the last songs we sang, (for there were many) was "Teach Me To Walk in the Light." The first verse was great and I remember hearing all  the girls singing and thinking to myself that they sound like little children, beautiful, innocent children of our Heavenly Father. And then I remembered the prayer I had offered earlier on this verse and thought about it some more -- what my decision would be. I already knew that I wanted to be in the Program, but I wasn't sure if I could devote myself and with my prayer, I innocently felt that God would tell me, there seemed no doubt I would get an answer, just the thought 'for sure He will tell me.' It didn't occur to me that the opposite could or would happen. And a feeling that I've never had before in my life, or have had since, came over me  and completely surrounded me and filled my very being when we began to sing the 2nd verse that says, "Come little child and together we'll learn..." It was so overpowering that I could not sing (I never could anyway) and I felt like shouting while I was standing there. The tears filled my eyes that I could not see and when I tried to sing it was a trembling, crying whimper. John saw how I was acting and put his arm over my shoulder to give me comfort and solace like only a best friend can and I sat there crying, trembling and tingling all over. I knew then that I needed to be there and work my heart out for the Program. It was almost, if not more important to me than school. I do not know why this happened to me other than to give me the answer to my prayers. But because I was in the Program and my testimony of the Church grew strong and bold so a s to never waiver again. I grew so much and was so blessed that  I feel I can never repay you Brother Parker, the other leaders, my friends there in the Program or the Program itself. I know that God lives and loves us. I know He hears our prayers and gives us answers and support. I'm so thankful to be a part of His wonderful Gospel and to be spreading it here in the mission. I'm so thankful and terribly excited to even be associated with alll these great and awesome Guide/Missionaries who I love so much and respect and admire tremendously. I love you all dearly and wish the best for you on your missions. Thanks Brother Parker. (hugs and kisses) Besos y carinos. Affectionately, Elder Jeff Richardson.

[Just had a wonderful talk with Jeff who now lives in Safford, Arizona with his wife and family of six children. Faithful, funny, loving, great man! Below is my answer to his letter...]

JEFF: I read the part in your letter about the Solomon meeting to the leadership of the Ammonite Mission and charged them to go out and make some of those wonderful spiritual experiences happen. You would have loved last SNTM. There were 120 kids there, not big by Solomon standards, but LARGE for us lately. Each member of the Presidency got to bear their testimonies. Eric is so thankful for you. I called him this afternoon and he must have thought I was crazy after he hung up. I forgot he was ZL for Wed/Sat and sincehe was on Tuesday for so long, I called to tell him to get something ready in case it rained a lot tonight. First rain in a long time. Then I had to call him back and tell him I wasn't really CRAZY just CONFUSED! Loved your letter, bud, and pray this issue is what you need. Thanx! - Bro. P.


Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Letters from Elders Thornton and Riggs 11/20/90 GUIDElines

THORNTON - OREGON

11/2/90

Brother Parker,

My friend, how are you?

There is no way I can express the anticipation and excitement while reading the GUIDElines. I love you for your friendship and the service you are providing in furthering this glorious work. I am excited f or the growth in the Program and its success. May it continue growing into December! As i think of myself and my time in the MTC, one scripture comes to mind that would always keep my juices flowing, so to speak:

2 Nephi 1:23 'Awake, my sons; put on the armour of righteousness. Shake of the chains with which ye are bound, and come forth out of obscurity, and arise from the dust.'

I love the excitement and love that was associated with the lights! May it be so this year.

Brother Parker, you will never know how much the October issue of the GUIDElines meant to me. On the 17th of last month my companion was sent home for some very serious problems. The Lord has helped me and guided me as I reflect back on my first two months. I am s o thankful to be here in Oregon and to be in the service of our Heavenly Father. For I know that he loves all of us, and only wants the best things for us. Your work and letters, of yourself and my brethren, were a strength.

As a parting thought on the work in the Gardens as well as throughout the world, Alma 29 comes to mind, but particularly Alma 29:14-17, with verse 16 saying '...when I think of the success of these my brethren my soul is carried away, even to the separation of it from the body as  it were, so great is my joy.'

Oh, if words could express how much your work is appreciated. I love the Lord and my opportunity to represent him. May His Spirit be with you always.

Love, Elder Thornton

KYLE: I love you my son. If only I were truly worthy of the praise. However, what makes the GUIDElines special is what you say to each other. May you each be blessed. Each of you must also realize howmuch your letters mean t o me and to your brethren around the world. I read you letter to Sisters Tanner and Kimball before the start of the Sisters' Morningside yesterday. They are impressed with your wonderful spirit of humility and wish you well. [Just heard from Les that Paula White is going to the Portland, Oregon Mission early next year!]

RIGGS - JAPAN

 90 Nen Gatsu Nichi

Dear Brother Parker,

Holy Cow, you DID IT AGAIN! Another wonderful edition of GUIDElines is put out to the world. I artook of a spiritual feast, as I get to every month due to your kindness.

Some HIGHLIGHTS I loved were spread through the issue. I loved Elder Williams' thoughts about happiness and attitude. So true. Another place that wrung very true was form Elder Pospisil. It also took me a year to learn why I am on a mission. I feel that every missionary has a different mission to accomplish. It has  taken me a year to discover what Elder Riggs is supposed to do in Japan, but now that I have discovered my purpose(s), I can concentrate on those things and become a more effective servant of God.

I also noticed that there are many Elders who have, well, lazy companions. Recently, I've discovered what worked for me. It took me 3 tries,  but I think I've finally found a way to handle it. It's probably not the best way for every situation, but please share this with those who could use it.

We've already heard from David Porter about Unity a few issues ago. Wondrous!! You can't succeed in any way without unity. Contention is of the Devil and is in no way conducive to the Spirit. The first companion I sent home was my first test on this, and I bombed. So the Lord gave me another chance, and I crashed and burned. And yes, I got my 3rd chance, and I finally learned my lesson. Thank you, David, for your words of wisdom on Unity.

A big lesson I learned was that even if you are not working, you can still have the Spirit's guidance;. And oh, it's so necessary in a situation like this. You need to follow that guidance 24 hours a day in ordere to encourage him. When he gets on your nerves, the Spirit leaves. You need to forgive him and get the Spirit back (remember Gene R. Cook's Eight Ways To Get The Spirit? Prayer, scriptures, testimony, music, gratitude, spiritual experience sharing, priesthood ordinances, service.)

Yes, the key to missionary work is work. (ETB's words) So when we a e in charge, we will have the opportunity to work. But maybe before that opportunity arises, Heavenly Father wants us to learn something that makes us twice as effective as before. The Lord will test our a bility to love those whom are not easily loved, and our ability to forgive. In short, he tests 'the Greatest of them all' - CHARITY. Concentrate on him, rather than the work,.

Here are two suggestions for whomever this may benefit.

1) Give him your full support. Remember David Porter's article on Unity? Whether you would do the same thing if you were  in charge doesn't matter. Back home, in the changing of a Bishopric, or or Youth Guide Presidencies, or whatever, the programs may be done differently, not because one was better than the other, but that different personalities come together to create new ideas.

And even if your idea is better than his, as you support him, you gain his trust, and he will learn faster from his mistakes, than if you told him so.

2) Look for the good in him. Seek, find, magnify, and even defend the good in him. Praise him for it. Sincere praise is the best way to encourage. He becomes a somebody, feels responsibility (due to #1) and wants to do what you want him to, because you told him what he w anted to hear. Everyone can use some praise. Some warm fuzzies. Hope this helps someone. Thanks for everything!

Love, Elder Riggs

RYAN: I know you can'timagine the growth I see in you...your testimony, knowledge...it's grrrr8! You're over the hump now and we are anxious to see what this second year will bring. Saw your folks in the temple last week. It was nice to see them in such good surroundings. Your Mom has such a big, beautiful smile! It looks like there a re just too many of you for me to take time to write back. How sad. I love you Ryan and appreciate the support and strength you are for Les.

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Take some time to review the information here and start with your own Standard of Performance and then use Set A Date With Faith to create HEROIC GOALS and achieve them.

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Helaman Sons Letters - An Introduction 

This is the name of a missionary newsletter I published monthly during the 1990s exclusively for alumni of the Arizona Temple Youth Guides. Each issue was a source of much strength for all of those who read it and was eagerly anticipated, read, saved, and re-read during those 18 months to two years an individual was serving away from home.Although it started out modestly enough, it eventually grew to eight pages front and back (the maximum I could send for one postage stamp), in very small print, with most issues containing up to 20,000 words.Even more remarkable, at its height it was being received by 135 missionaries in 21 countries and 28 of the United States and many of the Islands of the Sea. What makes it so valuable today is that I was able to keep it going for almost a whole decade, cycling through hundreds of missionaries and amassing letters containing 2,000,000+ words from the mission field.Believing I had something unique in my extensive files, and wanting to share it with the members of the Church throughout the world, I have created Helaman Sons Letters. Please be kind enough to share it far and wide. Go to the Archive and scroll down to continue reading about this marvelous program! - Bro. P.

Sunday, November 25, 2012

Thanksgiving Dance - November 20, 1990 cont'd

THANKSGIVING DANCE SET

Trevor is a DJ and he is going to put on a Thanksgiving dance the day after at the Chandler Alma Stake Center. He wants to fill the coffers before he leaves for his mission.

GuideWork never stops. While w e were doing Trevor's Initiatory who should come by but President Wade. We talked about a permanent home for the Mission until we were almost late for the lecture! He suggested I concentrate on the Interstake Center.

Then, after we were all done, since it w as Trevor's birthday and Trent Allen's too, we were met in the foyer of the temple by a whole group of Guides and Ammonites. We chatted there and on the steps of the temple for 30 minutes. Then, who should come out of the temple but Trevan Householder and Jared Dorney. Dorney is very wise. I told  him that next month was Visiting General Authority Month for the Tempe Mission and he suggested that I allow him to get together a bunch of the returned Guides to take over the Center for an evening while the visiting GA put on a special meeting for the Guides. Not just anyone can work on a Christmas night in December. It should be an exciting time f or all. Can you imagine a GENERAL AUTHORITY coming just to see us??? Remember, I promised  that day would come, one night a the Solomon building. I keep my promises.

Dorney has become an instant friend and I appreciate him so much. He spent 20 minutes on the Commitment Pattern for the Ammonites last Sunday and then when Brother Bowden got mad because he thought we weren't going to let him speak and went home, Jared took his place and bore a beautiful testimony. We had sung Christmas carols earlier and it w as a good meeting.

Trevor and I made it to the 7 a.m. session yesterday (11/10). It is such a blessing to me to be able to go to the temple with you guys who really appreciate the opportunity. After having waited in the Gardens so patiently, and impatiently in the case of many of you, to be able to sit next to you as you receive the mysteries of God- It is just wonderful. I left Trevor in the Celestial Room to contemplate some changes he wants to make in the Mission staff and rushed to get ready for the Sisters' Morningside.

SISTERS' MORNINGSIDE

It was EXCELLENT! Sister Kimball went out of her way to make muffins and sweet rolls and a fruit salad to feed our bodies  and together Sister Tanner and  Sister Kimball fed our spirits. I worry so much about the sisters who stay behind when you all leave and Sister Tanner spoke so eloquently about their plight. Here are some of my notes:

She started by expressing her feelings at how special each person there was. They were undoubtedly special spirits in the pre-existence and together shouted for joy at being able to have bodies and come to earth. They wept for joy at that time and have now become a righteous generation in the latter-days. Mothers and daughters everywhere are so special that Satan is determined to destroy them. She explained that when rearing children a mother touches their hearts more deeply because she is with them more often.

She said they were beautiful daughters of God and are circled with love. She said she had been introduced to Trevor before his endowment session and said his spirit was shining through! She pointed to him and said he was an example of what the sisters were looking for in a man. (Trevor took all of this in stride, of course. Really, I could feel his humility.)

She s aid there is much symbolism in the lights int he Gardens during Christmas. Sisters can share the light of Christ with others during that time.

She urged each to seek after joy of  all  kinds in this world. She testified that they were loved and missed in that other place from whence we all came. Then she spoke of roles that we each play during certain times of our life. At this time when all the boys are off in a blaze of glory on their missions the sisters are in a waiting role. She said that waiting helps us to grow a little faster in the role we have. Waiting is hard. She said some must stay in the dressing room practicing for their future role a little longer than others. She said work on t he role you have at present to do your best in it. She said at this time make the decisions that will keep them in the Gardens instead  of at the Mall or someplace else.

When she was done, Katina, who was conducting, wept and thanked both women and then asked Trevor if  he would say a few words. He started by saying that each day when he gets home from work he takes a shower and gets all clean and then holds his three week old little sister and weeps at how special that time is. He said after Brother Parker left the Celestial Room this morning and he was sitting there quietly contemplating a sister asked  if he would like to do some sealings and he said sure. He w as so impressed with the joy he felt and the beauty of the temple and urged them to plan to go t here when the time is right for them.

It w as an excellent meeting: full of the Spirit and excellent instruction. Too bad only six girls came. Afterward, we gathered around in some chairs on the patio at the Second Ward building, you know that beautiful old building at Center and 1st Ave, and shared some refreshments and just allowed  the girls to chat awhile with Sister Tanner and Sister Kimball.

Brethren, there were only a very few people there but our hearts were touched with love and the Spirit. I believe the  girls and Trevor are forever changed by what they were a part of. I told Sister Kimball that if we did nothing more than impress these future leaders of the Church with the Awesome responsibility they have toward t he women of the Church we were successful.

MIddle East - November 20, 1990

I don't know whether I am doing you a service by letting you know what I know, or not. If it is against mission rules to have this information about world conditions,  please disregard it. The latest Kiplinger Washington Letter received this morning (11/19) says: "The situation in the Middle East is confusing to many readers. One day's headlines point to war...the next to a peaceful ending. Based on information, here are our judgments: We will most likely go to ward if Iraz doesn't get out of Kuwait by early '91. the buildup is NOT a bluff. [400,000 troops now] The stage is set. Dos that mean war is enevitable? No...Saddam might still budge for one reason or another. He's shrewd, may cut a deal with other Arabs that he'll put out if they come through with face-saving proposals. No matter what happens the U.S. will have a military commitment  in that area for YEARS!"

November 25, 2012 - Interesting that 22 years later we are still having war signals from the Middle East.

AMMONITE CHRISTMAS MISSION!

We also organized the Ammonite Christmas Mission! Elijah Williams is the President with Kent Power, Scott Evans  and Tyler Britt as his ZLs, Alicia Kelly for Secretary, Tye Springer, Grant Stock, Stephen Merrill, Dave Osborn, Danene Jarvis, and Tim Penrod as DLs, Robert Soza, Jodie Reed, Nathan Farnsworth, Clate Mask, Catherine Pitts, and Maven Tenney as TSs. Kayla Lane is Ammonite Records Specialist.

Many bore  testimony that the new Mission was answer to prayer. I have taken a lot of flak from Brother Bowden about it. He was out of town at the time visiting this grandson who has been diagnosed with Muscular Dystrophy. It may have been a mistake doing it while he was gone, but Christmas is so closes and if you took a  look at the Roster you would get weak in the knees at the lack of workers. Trevor and Vega concurred, so I went ahead. How it all came about?

Well, that Thursday evening I went with Curtis Nielson as he received his endowment and during the session I felt impressed that the Ammonite Mission should be resurrected. So, since I was taking Friday off because of my birthday, I called Elijah early in the morning and  went by his house, had a long talk with him, he agreed to help and we got together later that afternoon and worked out the details. He was a Zone Leader last year in the ill-fated first Ammonite Mission and knew what to do and what not to do. Both Trevor and  Vega agreed it should be done as quickly as possible in view of the fact that Christmas is so close.

Flake had helped with the first one, but there was no help with this one. So, all day Saturday I worked to get everyone called and we set up a meeting with the new ZLs on Sunday morning and explained to them what was going to happen. Boy, have I learned a lot about doing this stuff. Not enough yet, but each time is an education.

Making sure two missions keep running has been e xciting but a real physical and emotional drain.

TREVOR THE AWESOME

I want each of you on your missions to know that if you are Trevor Barrett's friend you have been wonderously blessed. If you aren't, take the opportunity to become so. He is the 11th President I have worked with and I firmly believe the Lord sent him to us to serve as a strong, righteous example and  someone not afraid to point out our frailties. In a special meeting with the Directors, and in extreme kindness and forthrightness, he explained our shortcomings and then expressed his love for us personally.

What a GIANT of a man. You know, the Barrett many of you know is not the man who is now our President. I have really been surprised at the depth of his humility and the strength of his character. I love him with all my heart and promise you that the Youth Guide Mission will never be the same after his influence is fully felt. How many of you would have kept with the 'Program' if you had to drive 80 miles round trip to the Center? Each of you other ten Presidents can imagine the load he carries, and I hope you will pray for him. As an example, he said I want those Zone Leaders there for the Devotional and to stay the whole night. If it's too much, we'll get some more to do the work. And, I want to move some girls into the leadership positions. No sooner said, than done. they look up to him as a real leader.

TREVOR GOES TO THE TEMPLE

Since his father couldn't go to the temple when Trevor received his endowments last night (11/8), he asked me to be his Escort. He is number 44 or so of you guys and I was so honored. I tell each of you before you go that there is a temporal and a spiritual side of the temple and that it is run by old people who can't hear and get fuzzy brained sometimes. Well...the guy who was OUR escort was just in from the Sydney, Australia Temple and this was his first time working at the Arizona Temple. He said, "Well, this is MY first time, too, and they said I would have someone to help me."

I guess we were his helpers. I haven't done initiatory work for ten years. At least since I got fat. So, it was unfamiliar to me, also. That is one of the reasons I wanted to go, is for a refresher course.

I had Trevor on my left and another  new guy on my right. It was like being between the Devil and the Deep Blue Sea. Trevor so intent and humble. the other guy giggled and...well, it was different.

BARZ and Tom Clifford (Ammonite from Tempe going to the New York New York Mission) were there in the session also and I couldn't get them all out of the temple later. They kept finding sealing rooms to investigate, when I did get them out of the Celestial Room. BARZ jumped up and down several times to let Scott Simpson and Jason Ross knowe knew they were below him in the Baptistry! No one but BARZ could have gotten away with it! We stood in the same corner where I stood quietly and reverently with Brent Pospisil and Craig Lutke as Craig, and Brent and I had a spiritual experience of friendship and commitment. This time it was Barret on the right and BARZ on the left...what a contrast. However,  BARZ has settled down a great deal and I understand him a lot better now. What a good man.

Let's go back for a minute to the meeting Trevor had with us. I believe some of what he talked to us about was a bit blown out of proportion, but I am taking it very seriously. I believe that during the session last night the answer to a long-range solution came to me. We have been struggling with the old  'recognition' bugaboo since I came, at the very least. We are no longer an 'unknown' Mission. In fact, while sitting in the lecture before the endowment session last night, a young missionary across the room said to Barrett, "Aren't you an  Ammonite  or something?" He was from Tempe and had been to the Tr-Stake Fireside! Anyway, remember the letter Elder Ballard wrote  to Don Flake about asking Elder Backman to investigate the Mission? Well, I felt impressed that it was time for us to get Elder Backman on the road. What we need is complete legitimacy in the Church. We need to have the Mission looked at carefully, and either have the current Directors sustained by the Brethren or  replaced and the Mission run more closely along Church lines. I feel real good about it, but haven't decided how to go about it. I know that I cannot continue the way we have, and yet I feel there is so much more we can do if we keep up the direction we are headed. I don't want to quit after having just gotten us a new building and office and all.

In the whole session last night, that thought suddenly came into my mind and it was the only one not related to my role as Escort and making sure Trevor had the best experience he could have. Remember the commitment to attend the temple? Well, I again promise you that you will have answers to your challenges in life come to you in the temple and receive guidance directly from our Father. Take advantage of it as I have. However, I must confess that I missed attending on the same Saturday Trevor met with us.

That was the first week in 36 months I had missed going through an endowment session. I thought I could do it all. Sister Randall called and asked me to work the Switchboard at the temple for a couple of hours inn an emergency and promised I could get into the 9 o'clock session. Well, I quit in time but the crowd was so big that the chapel was filled and the line came out into the lobby area. I couldn't even find anyone to pull rank with. Now, in retrospect, if I had told them this would be the first week I had missed going to a session in 36 months they would have made room for me. I told Sister Randall, and she said, "Brother, you will still receive the blessings." And she is right. It is not where we serve, but how. I was the only person in the city who could work the Switchboard for that two hours. But it was still sad to have broken a perfect record established over 36 months. Please know that I tried. As a consolation, I slipped up the elevator to the Celestial Room and wept and thought for 30 minutes or so. It w as sweet, taking a few minutes to remember all of you and where we sat in the Celestial room and what we talked about.

The reason I couldn't go later is that we were having a meeting at 11 a.m. on the Tempe Tri-Stake Fireside and I had to be there to conduct it. Two duties, two good choices to make. You guessed it, I was about the only one there on time and the meeting didn't start until 11:45, which would have given me time to take the 9:30 session. I go into such great depth because as an experienced temple attender I know that if you are going to be serious about your commitment, you are going to have to make serious choices in order to keep it. I cannot enumerate t he lengthy number of blessings I receive from going to the temple weekly. If I told you all the events, changes and direction of the Mission I received in the temple you would be astonished!

Trevor and I are going to the 7 a.m. in the morning (11/10) if he can get a ride over. On the way home last night his truck caught fire on the freeway at Broadway Road and he had to stop and get a fire extinguisher from a construction site to put it out. (Les said he was probably going to fast it caught on fire! He has three speeding tickets already!) Afterwards we are going to the Sisters' Morningside hosted by Sister Kimball and Sister Tanner, the Asst. Matron at the temple.

Thursday, November 22, 2012

Giving Thanx!

November 20, 1990 - 21 Months - A Recap

Temple Farewell Luncheon, Adult Guides Director, 19 Sacrament and Youth Meetings (to a total of 10,000 members), Two Tri-Stake Firesides, Two Sisters Conferences, Temple Workers Fireside, Two Ammonite Missions, Guide Training Conferences, 44 NEW Endowees, Member Missionary Committee,the Ancient Warriors

Permanent Home and Office, 1,276,433 Rosters, EVERY night Christmas '89, 500 Hours IN the Temple, the GUIDElines (now in 17 countries & 10 states), and 100's of nights at the Center!

Thanksgiving! How thankful I am for EACH of you and the Arizona Temple and the  Youth Gide Mission inspired by a Prophet and the lovely Gardens...and for our beloved Uncle Bobby who has so devotedly kept it safe and whole and going for so long. Who could forget Brother Juanito Vega, who has been such a wonderful friend. Can you imagine how deeply moved and changed my life has been since my involvement with "THE Program" in these latter-days? Our Father in Heaven musts truly love us so much to have given us this one-of-a-kind opportunity for growth and training.

Of course, it's the Spirit that counts, and the Spirit of this Mission is engendered by each of you...and how thankful I am for your faith and prayers. Not only for the Guide Mission but for me personally. Thanx!

Brethren, the Guidelines has gotten so big...and it means so much to so many of you...that I am considering establishing and Editorial Staff to help me get it done. With Kent Curtis' call to Span, and the St. Gelais twins to California and Texas, and  Tom Clifford to NY NY, and Mike Kelsey and Nathan Nichols to the Philippines the GUIDElines goes to 17 countries and 10 states. I've been zeroxing 50 copies and now will have to go to 60 for this issue. That's a bunch. However, I would remain in full control as Publisher, but it would free up my time if I could get help in putting it all together. GuideWork has to many facets, that it seems natural that the GUIDElines would evolve into a large part of it. I now have more missionaries  in the field that I am concerned about than there a re Youth Guides. We only have about 26 on the Roster, compared to almost 50 of you in the field (that I correspond with and send GLs to). The change isn't happening with this issue, and is still just a thought, but I would  hope that if I decide to do that it would not effect our correspondence with me and I would have your complete support.

Lots has happened in the Mission this month. Notice I wrote MISSION. President Barrett doesn't like the  word Program.. He says this is a Mission, and therefore at his direction, and with the concurrence of the Directors, we have changed the name. It is now; THE ARIZONA TEMPLE VISITORS' CENTER YOUTH GUIDE MISSION.

RELEASES AND CALLS

Curtis Nielson was released as a Zone Leader and Eric Richardson took his place. Curtis is ready for his mission and Eric is deep into the Mission now so it was a good trade.

New District Leaders include Jason Bagley, Brain Buell, and Emily Good! Em just about died when Trevor and I met with her. She knew something was up, but not what. It w as fun interviewing her. Of course Brian had only been a Training Specialist for two weeks, so when we moved him up to DL, Trevor said, after establishing the fact that Brian was Awesome, "We'd like to call  you as a District Leader on Tuesday evening, what do you have to say? All Brian said was, "I'm amazed!" That was the understatement of the year.

We moved Paul Whetten, Heber Allen, Scott Jones and Brent Moore in as Training Specialists. Jason Ross is an Asst. TS with Scott and also the RS for Thursday evening. New Guides include Steve Jensen, Kent Curtis, and Lafe Carroll. Steve Jones is a RS. Vega spent almost two hours with Kent Curtis the first time he tried to pass the Tour. I was in the temple dining room eating some German Chocolate cake and  drinkiing chocolate milk (that was my chocolate Saturday) about 10 a.m. on Saturday and watched them out the windows. Vegas has gotten a lot tougher. (New Guides inn Tyler Britt. He called me last night (11/18) and said he will be getting his endowment soon. How much fun it is to have you guys to go the temple with.)

(In addition to the above-referenced releases and calls, President Barrett released Trent Allenand Dan Roberts as DLs, putting Dan as a TS on Wednesday night. James Boddy is now a DL on Thursday and Evan Vance is a DL on Wednesday. I sat next to Doug Pospisil last night, His papers go in this week. Scott Simpson's come back this week. We will lose about 10 in the next two months! Tyler Britt was sustained as our newest Guide. He called me about 11 p.m. last night to say he has gotten the okay to get his endowments. He was 18 in August, but has special family circumstances that require special measures.)